The desire to have a child is a personal matter that can arise within the context of a relationship—but not necessarily only there.
Modern lifestyles, work demands, the absence of a partner, the factor of age, and many other factors can lead a woman to consider having a child without a partner at that particular moment. Her desires, combined with the fundamental reality of time, shape the framework within which she negotiates the decision to have a child—on her own.
In forming this decision, certain concerns arise, such as:
- The weight of individual responsibility, both practically and emotionally
- Managing societal perceptions and the reactions of her immediate environment
- Handling this type of single parenthood in the course of raising the child
- Coping with the fear of the unknown and the future
It is important that every thought and concern is discussed and that each woman finds her own personal answers. This helps in making a well-informed decision, as the questions, the answers, and the final decision are hers alone.
However, this does not mean that she has to experience it all alone. Sharing, expressing, talking, and seeking counseling during the decision-making process are ways to connect more deeply with oneself, to gain new insights, discover questions and answers, and to view the path with less emotional intensity and more awareness.
Efforts Without Results
Every attempt to have a child is a cycle that begins with hope and the expectation of a positive outcome. But when this does not happen, the cycle closes abruptly. However, the desire remains.
What went wrong? Did I make a mistake? Is it worth trying again? Will we ever succeed?
